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Bayard was patient and listened to me vent.

How to have better conversations with people you've just met, according to science

You get better at asking better questions, and answering with more interesting responses. A question can either kick off a conversation or keep it going, Sandstrom says.

I decided to keep our appointment. All my friends are married with.

I felt ready to hear what Bayard had in store for me and was happy to know that there were only three challenges she wanted me to tackle over the fiends month to help me make friends. She researches how people navigate their social worldsincluding how language and mental capacity influences interactions.

She advised me to send that person a message on Instagram asking them to get coffee. Most people, I thought, make friends without a strategy or game plan. Who are the people you sometimes see at the same parties and share mutual friends, but never have one-on-one conversations?

I told her I almost canceled our session out of pure shame. But before I did, I asked Bayard for advice on what to say. We met a handful of times over the years and she casually always invited me to them ffriends a yoga class.

I hired a friendship coach to help me make friends. here's what happened.

I did exactly what Bayard advised and messaged her on Instagram. Research actually suggests that people who ask more questions are better liked by their conversation partners than jyst who ask fewer questions.

Our fear assumptions fail to take into the social norms of politeness, Schroeder says. Those with social anxiety struggle because they are in their head and second guess themselves. The first thing Bayard advised me to do was take inventory of people I know and who they know.

Be curious Ask questions. Research shows the opposite, however, that people nearly always are willing to engage in a conversation when prompted by someone else. Start there.

Give someone a compliment It shifts the focus to the other person and should make them feel good, Sandstrom explains. I wrote each challenge down and devoted at least one week to following through on them. Focusing the attention on the other person in those moments can help us get past those awkward spots, she says.